Various Types of People

Some of people have a good sense of humour,

Some people are very serious,

Some people are oriented towards science,other towards literature,some are very artistic,

Some are....They have a hard time figuring out what they are.

but they know how to have a good time.There are people of different personalities

What kind of personality Allah has given to you and then work in accordance with that.

Every single person have their own character and personality.They can't force you to be like them,another side you also can't force them to be like you.

Allah made personalities every person very very very different.And everybody should try to figure out what their personality is like as much as they can.

and then,in accordance with that,figure out what is the most they can make of their opportunity.

what are the most they can and what are challenge in their personality.

If someone is able to recognize their weakness then they are able to make connections,make friends,put themselves around people that turned that cover for that weakness.they recognize that weakness and they cover for that weakness.

If you surround yourself with people that have the same weakness as you,they have the same problem as you,like if you have a terrible sense of humour,you have no restrictions on your sense of humour.and you become friends with other people who also have no breaks in their sense of humour.

Not very good things will come out of that relationship.

You need somebody to stir things up.

You serious,everybody around you are very serious,your friends are super serious...ooooohhh that is a very depressing life.You need somebody to stir things up. 

Now in terms of deen,in terms of what Allah wants you to do in your life,everybody should instead of complaining or you only get happy when good things happen,and you get super depressed when bad things happen.

The reality of it is each of you will have your share of good and bad in this world.And you need to make the most of it given your personality.Given Your STyle.

Halal itu Harus

Bagi seorang mukmin, makanan halal adalah syarat mutlak…. Sayidina Abu Bakar memilih untuk muntah daripada menelan makanan haram… Wali dan sufi sufi memilih tidak makan daripada memakan makanan yang subhat…..salah satu sebabnya karena jika kita makan makanan yang halal hati kita menjadi bersih dan mudah untuk melakukan ibadah serta apapun yang dperintahkan oleh Allah, begitu juga sebaliknya makanan yang haram akan menggelapkan hati dan membuat kita sulit beribadah.Itu sebabnya sebagai hamba Allah, kita harus menjaga diri kita, anak anak kita, keluarga dan siapa saja dari makan makanan haram agar kita mudah beribadah dan dekat kepada Rabb kita.

Mungkin pernah kita berfikir,kenapa doa-doa kita belum dikabulkan oleh Allah,walaupun kita yakin apapun keputusan yang Allah tetapkan untuk kita adalah yang terbaik.

Beberapa hal yang mungkin kita anggap sepele bisa jadi alasan mengapa doa kita tidak terijabah.

seperti satu gambaran kisah Ibrahim bin Adham dibawah ini.

Ibrahim bin Adham merupakan seorang yang dikenal ahli ibadah, zuhud dan tinggi tawakalnya kepada Allah. Pada suatu hari setelah selesai menunaikan ibadah haji, Ibrahim bin Adham berniat ziarah ke masjid Al-Aqsa.Untuk bekal di perjalanan, ia membeli 1 kg kurma dari pedagang tua di dekat Masjidil Haram.Setelah kurma ditimbang dan dibungkus, Ibrahim melihat sebutir kurma tergeletak di dekat timbangan. Menyangka kurma itu bagian dari yang ia beli, Ibrahim memungut dan memakannya.
Tiba-tiba ia mendengar percakapan dua malaikat tentang dirinya."Itu Ibrahim bin Adham, ahli ibadah yang zuhud dan wara' yang doanya selalu dikabulkan Allah SWT," kata malaikat yang satu."Tetapi sekarang tidak lagi, doanya ditolak karena empat bulan yang lalu ia memakan sebutir kurma yang jatuh dari meja seorang pedagang tua di dekat Masjidil Haram," jawab malaikat yang kedua.
Ibrahim bin Adham terkejut sekali, ia terhenyak, jadi selama empat bulan ini ibadahnya, shalatnya, doanya dan amalan-amalan lainnya tidak diterima oelh Allah SWT gara-gara memakan sebutir kurma yang bukan haknya."Astaghfirullah....," Ibrahim beristighfar.Ia langsung berkemas berangkat lagi ke Makkah menemui pedagang tua penjual kurma untuk meminta dihalalkan sebutir kurma yang telah ditelannya.Begitu sampai di Makkah, ia langsung menuju tempat penjual kurma itu, akan tetapi ia tidak menemukan pedagang tua itu melainkan seorang anak muda,"Empat bulan yang lalu saya membeli kurma di sini dari seorang pedagang tua. Kemana ia sekarang?" tanya Ibrahim."Sudah meninggal sebulan yang lalu, saya sekarang meneruskan pekerjaannya berdagang kurma," jawab anak muda itu."Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Roji'un, kalau begitu kepada siapa saya meminta penghalalan?"katanya.Kemudian Ibrahim menceritakan peristiwa yang dialaminya, anak muda itu mendengarkan dengan penuh hikmat."Engkau sebagai ahli wairs orang tua itu, maukah engkau menghalalkan sebutir kurma milik ayahmu yang terlanjur aku makan tanpa seizinnya?" tanya Ibrahim."Bagi saya tidak masalah, Insya Allah saya halalkan, tapi entah dengan saudara-saudara saya yang jumlahnya 11 orang. Saya tidak berani mengatasnamakan mereka karena mereka mempunyai hak waris sama dengan saya," jawab pemuda itu."Dimana alamat saudara-saudaramu? Biara saya temui mereka satu persatu," tutur Ibrahim.
Ibrahim bin Adham pun bergegas, walaupun tempatnya berjauhan, akhirnya selesai juga. Semua setuju menghalalkan sebutir kurma milik ayah mereka yang termakan oleh Ibrahim.Empat bulan kemudian, Ibrahim bin Adham sudah berada di bawah kubah Sakra lagi dan tiba-tiba ia mendengar dua malaikat yang dulu terdengar lagi bercakap-cakap."Itulah Ibrahim bin Adham yang doanya tertolak gara-gara makan sebutir kurma milik orang lain," kata malaikat yang satu."Oh... tidak lagi sekarang, sekarang doanya sudah makbul lagi. Ia telah mendapat penghalalan dari ahli waris pemilik kurma itu. Diri dan jiwa Ibrahim kini telah bersih kembali dari kotoran sebutir kurma yang haram karena masih milik orang lain, dan sekarang ia sudah bebas," jawab malaikat yang kedua.Setelah itu ia langsung berangkat menuju Al Aqsa. Empat bulan kemudian, Ibrahim tiba di Al-Aqsa dan seperti biasa, ia suka memilih tempat beribadah pada sebuah ruangan di bawah kubah Sakhra. Ia shalat dan berdoa khusyuk sekali.

Subhanallah...kita bisa mengambil hikmah dari cerita tersebut ,

itu hanyalah sebutir kurma,tidak akan mengenyangkan kalaupun kita makan,

tapi bagaimana akibatnya kalau kita mendapatkan makanan tersebut dengan cara yang subhat,apalagi haram.Naudzubillah.

Makanan yang kita makan sangatlah berpengaruh akan doa kita ,permohonan kita terhadap Allah bisa tidak akan terijabah bila kita tidak berhati-hati dalam makanan yang kita makan.Astaghfirullah. 

Kehalalan suatu makanan diatur dalam syariat dari jenis makanan itu sendiri, cara memperolehnya, cara mengolahnya dan cara menyajikannya. Makanan yang sudah jelas jelas halal, jika penyajiannya kurang tepat, bisa menjadi haram. Contohnya ayam, dari jenisnya termasuk makanan yang halal, Tapi ayam bisa menjadi haram jika cara sembelih ayam tidak sesuai dengan syariat.Ayam yang halal bisa menjadi haram karena ayam tersebut masuk dalam kategori bangkai. Jika sudah disembelih, masih ada hal hal yang perlu dicermati dalam penyajiannya. Ayam yang sudah disembelih sesuai syariat jika dimasak bersama angciu atau arak, menjadi benda yang haram untuk dimakan.

dan seperti contoh kisah sebutir kurma diatas,kurma adalah halal,tapi akan bisa menjadi subhat kalau itu tidak jelas milik siapa kurma yang kita makan.dan akan menjadi haram kalau kurma itu kita dapatkan dari hasil mencuri.

jadi apapun yang kita dapatkan ,selalu untuk berhati-hati menjaga diri dari hal-hal yang menghalangi terijabahnya doa kita.

HALAL sudah menjadi syarat mutlak untuk apapun yang kita makan,kita lakukan,darimana kita memperoleh nafkah,dan cinta yang kita dapatkan pun haruslah berlabel "HALAL".

Dinding Facebook

Beberapa orang sering meng-up date status konyol mereka dengan kata-kata yang  tidak jelas, entah apa tujuannya ,mungkin karna saking "gandrung" nya dengan media social,pengen numpang beken, cari perhatian dan pengen dapet like atau comment-comment biar postnya rame seperti : 

> Ngantuk

> Dingin . . .

> Sakiiiitt.

> B.E.T.E. . . .

> Capek

> Puanass buaget neh !

> Arghhh .. . !!!!

> Gile tuh org !

> Aku masih menanti . . .

> Galau..!!

> Laper...

> lagi makan update status
> mau mandi update status
dan masih banyak sekali post-post konyol apalagi ala "alay" di facebook wall.mungkin dalam tidurpun kalau jempol masih bisa ngetik di keypad buat update status,mereka masih bikin tuh status-status konyol..-_-

Sebenernya tahukah kamu darimana sih asal muasal Wall facebook itu ???

1. Tembok Ratapan

Ibu Kota Israel yang luasnya sekitar 700 kilometer ini adalah kota yang berdiri di sekitar pegunungan yang indah. Penuh dengan situs-situs suci bagi umat berbagai agama, sehingga menjadi magnet bagi wisatawan dari berbagai penjuru dunia. Tembok Barat alias Tembok Ratapan, misalnya. Dinding bait suci di Jerusalem yang dibangun oleh Raja Salomon atau Sulaiman dan Bait Suci itu hancur ketika Israel diserbu tentara Romawi pada 70 Masehi. Bangsa Yahudi percaya tembok ini tidak ikut hancur karena di tempat ini berdiam Shekhinah. Dengan demikian, berdoa di tembok ini sama artinya berdoa kepada Tuhan. Biasanya, peziarah dari berbagai penjuru dunia juga menyelipkan kertas doa di sela-sela batu tembok ratapan.

Tembok ini dulunya dikenal hanya sebagai Tembok Barat, tetapi kini disebut “Tembok Ratapan” karena di situ orang Yahudi berdoa dan meratapi dosa-dosa mereka dengan penuh penyesalan. Selain mengucapkan doa-doa mereka, orang Yahudi juga meletakkan doa mereka yang ditulis pada sepotong kertas yang disisipkan pada celah-celah dinding itu.

2. Apakah Hubungan Tembok Ratapan dengan Wall Facebook?

Kenapa di Facebook mempunyai Wall (Dinding/Tembok)? Karena pemiliknya -Mark Zuckerberg- adalah orang Yahudi – walau kabar terakhir dia mengproklamirkan diri sebagai atheis-, (mungkin) terinspirasi dari salah satu tempat suci Yahudi di Yerusalem yang bernama Tembok Ratapan. Dimana kaum Yahudi melakukan ritual ibadah dengan berdoa dan meratapi dosa-dosa mereka dengan penuh penyesalan. Selain mengucapkan doa-doa mereka, orang Yahudi juga meletakkan doa mereka yang ditulis pada sepotong kertas yang disisipkan pada celah-celah dinding itu. Itulah (mungkin) inspirasi Facebook Wall, untuk curhat, dan sebagainya.

3. Tembok Ratapan = Wall Facebook?

Tembok ratapan itu kini masih berdiri, dan masih banyak orang datang ke sana untuk berdoa dan meratap, sekaligus menuliskan harapan-harapannya lalu menyelipkannya ke dinding- dinding tembok itu. Nah, kini ada sebuah tembok baru yang dibuat di luar tembok ratapan itu. Jika yang datang ke tembok ratapan sebagian besar adalah orang-orang yahudi, maka di tembok baru itu, yang datang meratap bukan saja orang-orang yahudi, tetapi juga orang-orang Muslim dan orang-orang umum. Mereka dengan leluasa meratap, mengeluarkan keluh kesahnya, menuliskan harapan-harapannya, dan menghaturkan doa-doanya. Bahkan, jika Tembok Ratapan di Palestina hanya sedikit pengunjungnya, itu pun tidak setiap hari, maka tembok yang baru ini selalu dipenuhi oleh pengunjung dari segala penjuru dunia tiap harinya. Bahkan ada yang setiap hari tidak pernah meninggalkan tembok baru ini saking khusyuknya ibadah mereka di tempat itu.

Meski begitu, ia tidak pernah sesak, para pengunjungnya bisa dengan leluasa mengunjungi tembok-tembok itu. Bahkan,mereka diberikan kemudahan dengan dibebaskannya mereka membuat privatisasi pada sebagian tembok tertentu. Mereka bisa menuliskan harapannya, menyelipkan keluh kesah dan doa-doa panjangnya di dinding- dinding tembok itu, bahkan kini mereka juga dapat menyelipkan foto-foto diri mereka. Mereka juga dapat berinteraksi dengan pengunjung lain yang juga menjadi peratap di tembok itu. Kadang, mereka saling bertukar komentar atas keluhan, harapan, doa, atau sekadar celoteh kecil yang disisipkan di dinding mereka. Begitu mudah, begitu akrab, dan begitu alami…

Ya.. tahukah kalian? Kini, tembok ratapan itu bernama Facebook!!! Di Facebook, kita mengenal istilah wall/dinding. Di sana kita biasa mencurahkan isi kepala kita, harapan, doa dan sebagainya. Secara konseptual, ini sama dengan konsep tembok ratapannya orang yahudi. Bedanya, tembok ratapan kita itu adalah tembok maya, sementara tembok ratapan orang yahudi itu bersifat nyata.

Ya, di sini kita bisa melihat bagaimana orang yahudi itu mengamalkan ajaran agamanya, bahkan sampai di dunia maya. Bukankah pemilik dan penggagas facebook ini adalah orang yahudi?

4. Sekedar Renungan dan Nasehat

Terus terang hati ini merasa tidak enak melihat banyak status tidak jelas dan kurang bermanfaat muncul dari account teman-teman. Tidak mengapa jika yang ditulis atau disampaikan berupa ilmu, nasehat atau info-info yang bermanfaat. Namun kalau sekedar isi hati, luapan perasaan, kekecewaan, kegaguman atau entah apapun namanya yang kiranya tidak bermanfaat maka kiranya tidak perlu ditulis/ disampaikan lewat fb atau yang lainnya. Selain hal itu sia-sia, hal tersebut juga tidak baik untuk menjaga ‘privasi’ dan muru’ah/kehormatan diri. Hendaknya kita senantiasa menjaga waktu kita, jangan hanya dihabiskan untuk sekedar update status atau membalas/berkomentar pada status- status yang tidak jelas.

So...Let's use this facebook wisely.....!.....^_^

and THE BEST  place to share everything is just to Allah...

ش ياسر الدوسري وفي ختمة لا توصف بكى و أبكى من خلفه 1434هــ كاملة

Mishary Rashid Alafasy - Hadith Qudsi (Astaghfirullah).flv

 قَالَ الله تَعَالَى: ] يَا ابْنَ آدَمَ، إِنَّكَ مَا دَعَوْتَنِيْ وَرَجَوْتَنِيْ غَفَرْتُ لَكَ عَلَى مَا كَانَ مِنْكَ وَلاَ أُبَالِيْ، يَا ابْنَ آدَمَ لَوْ بَلَغَتْ ذُنُوْبُكَ عَنَانَ السَّمَاءِ ثُمَّ اسْتَغْفَرْتَنِيْ غَفَرْتُ لَكَ وَلاَ أُبَالِيْ، يَا ابْنَ آدَمَ إِنَّكَ لَوْ أَتَيْتَنِيْ بِقُرَابِ الأَرْضِ خَطَايَا ثُمَّ لَقِيْتَنِيْ لاَ تُشْرِكْ بِيْ شَيْئًا لَأَتَيْتُكَ بِقُرَابِهَا مَغْفِرَةً [ )) رواه الترمذي.

Stay Humble and Don't be arrogant !

Stay humble ,and never underestimate the ability of another..

who we are ?
do you think if you have studied in popular university then you are better than your friends who can't take study in the same place with you?

if we think we have more knowledge than the other,how if it compare with Imam Bukhari
imam Bukhari had memorized 600.000 hadest only in 15 years..He had memorized Quran in his 9 years old age.
he memorized all of the book that he read,without even  a single word that he forgot.
how if we are compared with imam syafi'i ?..imam muslim ? and some another Muslim prominent figures

no one can guarantee, if you have graduated from the best madrasah in your country,then you will be more pious than your friend who just graduated from the general Islamic schools.

Astaghfirullah..we are just nothing..more over in front of Allah,,
so why we should arrogant ?

,
عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ لَا يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ مَنْ كَانَ فِي قَلْبِهِ مِثْقَالُ ذَرَّةٍ مِنْ كِبْرٍ قَالَ رَجُلٌ إِنَّ 
الرَّجُلَ يُحِبُّ أَنْ يَكُونَ ثَوْبُهُ حَسَنًا وَنَعْلُهُ حَسَنَةً قَالَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ جَمِيلٌ يُحِبُّ الْجَمَالَ الْكِبْرُ بَطَرُ الْحَقِّ وَغَمْطُ النَّاسِ

(91 صحيح مسلم كِتَاب الْإِيمَانِ باب تَحْرِيمِ الْكِبْرِ وَبَيَانِهِ)

Abdullah ibn Mas’ud reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “No one who has the weight of a seed of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise.” A man said, “Indeed, a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes.” The Prophet said, “Verily, Allah is beautiful and He loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on people.”

Qur'an which is like a ROPE

The greatest reason for the weakness of emaan(faith) is being detached with the book of Allah Azza wa Jalla and The Sunnah of His Prophet Sallallahu'alaihi wa sallam.

Quran.......

this is the key...

• if you don't read it
• you don't ponder upon its meanings
• you don't try to implement it in your life 
• you don't memorize it 

Then...you can't be wondering why your emaan is WEAK,because you have no attachment to Allah.

the Prophet Sallahu'alaihi wa sallam said : I leave behind me two things if you hold to them you will never go astray"

The first of them is The book of Allah ( Al Quran ) which is like a "ROPE"
One end of it with Allah and the other end of it is in your hands.

if you let go that rope,then you lose your connection with Allah Azza wa Jalla.

You have to continue to keep that connection with the book of Allah.

The only way we know of Allah is by that which He has revealed to us about himself.

If we just read the arabic letters ,May Allah rewards you with His hasanaat for every single letter you read.

but if you don't inderstand it what is it going to do for you ?

you don't know what Allah is even telling you.

Therefore you must have a connection with Allah through His book,and you must have a connection through the sunnah of the Prophet Sallalu 'alaihi wa sallam.

These Two things of Mandatory.

The Longer you stay away from The book of Allah,The more you will find your emaan draining. 

Al 'Ilmu noorun ( Knowledge is Light )

We can take a self introspection of the story of Imam Syafi ee below:

He ever complained to his teacher about his bad memorization ability (although we know that Imam Syafi ee has a wonderful memorization ability).

شكوت الى وكيع سوء حفظي # فأرشدني بترك المعاصي

وأخبرني بأن العلم نور # ونور الله لا يهدى للعاصي

"I Complained to Waki 'about my bad memory,

So he advised me to leave sins.

And said: Know that indeed, knowledge is light.

And the light of Allah is not bestowed upon the sinner. "

Now we should take it back to ourself ...how about us?

Have we ever felt ,we are very difficult to memorize the Qur'an?

Have we ever thought it was hard to take some good lessons (mostly about 'ilmu Ad deen )?

so we should take more care about our own behaviours from now..

stay away from the bad deeds...coz may those things that make we are so difficult to get some good knowledges.

The Worst Thief in Islam

Do you know ,who is the worst thief in Islam ?

They are not who robbing millions of money in the bank, or who has managed to steal a luxury car in a public parking area.but....The worst thief is the one who steals from his prayer.

It is narrated by Abu Qatadah [ra] that the Prophet (saw) said, “The worst kind of thief is one who steals from his prayer.” The companions said, “O Prophet of Allah how can someone steal from their prayers?” He (saw) said, “He does not fulfill the ruku of the prayer nor its sujood.” [Ahmad]

The Prophet (saw) forbade that someone should peck (in Salah) like a crow. [Ahmad, Abu Dawud]

The Prophet (saw) said, “Verily, a man will leave from (his Salah) and only a tenth of his Salah is written for him, a ninth, an eighth, a seventh, a sixth, a fifth, a forth, a third, half.” [Abu Dawud and Tirmidhi]

"Salah isn't a race, don't rush through it. 'We have divided the Qur’an in portions, so that you may recite it to the people gradually.' (17:106)"

A man entered the Masjid and the Messenger of Allah (saw) was sitting. The man prayed (2 raka’) and then came to the Prophet (saw) and said salam. The Prophet (saw) replied the salam and then said, “Go back and pray for you have not prayed.” So the man went back, prayed (2 raka’) like he did the first time and then came back and repeated the salam. The Prophet (saw) replied the salam and then said, “Go back and pray for you have not prayed.” So the man went back, prayed (2 raka’) like he did the first time and then came back and repeated the salam. The Prophet –(saw) replied the salam and then said, “Go back and pray for you have not prayed.” He said it three times until – on the third time the man said, “By He who sent you with the truth O Messenger of Allah, I do not know any better than this. Teach me.”

The Prophet (saw) then said, “If you stand up for Salah say ‘Allahu Akbar.’ Then read what comes easy for you from the Quran. Then bow until you are comfortable in your ruku’. Then stand up until you are standing up straight. Then prostrate until you are comfortable in your Sujood. Then sit until you are comfortable in your Juloos. Then prostrate until you are comfortable in your Sujood. And do this in your entire Salah.” [Bukhari, Muslim]

Uthman ibn Abi Dahshah said, “I have never prayed a Salah that I have not asked Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta’aala to forgive for my shortcomings in that Salah.”

PRAY  as if it is your last prayer

much lessons in one video...Maa Shaa Allah

Clean Your Heart

The right direction when we look at the behavior of someone or see the events that occur in ourselves and others it toward 'inside', not outside '.

Allah just wants me always to meditate,think and act in harmony with His will ..

If we look at the "outside" 'then we would do are blame, criticize, booing, and judging others who ultimately made me defiant and ruin our own heart.

But if we see towards "Inside" then we would do are:self reflection, introspection and take lessons from each problems, which in turn makes me able to obey, find reproach in ourselves, improvement, understanding and purify the heart.

Assessment of everything depends on the 'quality' of the contents of the heart

If the content of the heart is good then the attitude also will be good..

If the contents of the heart is bad then the attitude also will be bad..

Uneg-Unegku !

Uneg-Unegku !!

punya temen beda negara itu ............harus banyak "MAKLUM" bin "SABAR"

mungkin karena budaya mempengaruhi karakter mereka.

"THOK leh"..udah jadi gaya bicara mereka,so mo apa lagi coba ????

they don't appreciate our efforts ?? oooh..jare wong jowo "Lemah lemah teles,,Gusti Alloh sing bales"...hmmmm....wis awake dewe cukup mesem wae..

tersinggung?..(salahnya sendiri tersingunggan) ..

nesu ?...(tiwas mumet dewe)

mungkin aku bisa berpikir "am proud to be an Indonesian",terutama jadi wong Jowo,alias javaness tur asli SOLO".. meskipun wong jowo kuwi akeh "pekewuhane"...sithik sithik "nuwun sewu" 

...sithik sithik "nuwun sewu"..lan sithik sithik muni maturnuwun...siji meneh tur "Ora Isonan (utowo Ora tegelan) hadeeehhhhh...

nah..karena semua itu..mungkin aku jadi lebih perasa,,"having sensitive feelings and thoughts" huufftt...itu rasanya ga enak banget !!

wis ben lah..urip ben dadi luwih colorpul. ^^

What is the Purpose of Your Life ?

What is the Purpose of Your Life ?

Why, when we ask the question, "What is the goal and purpose of life?" that we get many different answers? It is because people are confused; they don't really know. They are stumbling in the dark, and rather than say, "I don't know"; they just offer any answer they have been programmed to give. Think about it. Is our purpose in this world simply to eat, sleep, dress, work, acquire some material things and enjoy ourselves? Is this our purpose? Why are we born? What is the object of our existence? What is the wisdom behind the creation of man and this tremendous universe? Think about those questions.

My dear respected brothers and sisters, we have to ask ourselves a further question. When you see a bridge, a building or an automobile, you automatically consider the person or company that constructed it. When you see a large ship, an airplane, a rocket, a satellite; you also think about how incredible it is. [You know by its design who the maker is.] When you see a super international airport, nuclear plant or an orbiting space station you have to be thoroughly impressed with the engineering dynamics that are involved. Yet, these are just things that are manufactured by human beings. So what about the human body with its massive and intricate control systems? Think about it.

Think about the brain: how it thinks, functions, analyzes, retrieves and stores information, as well as distinguishes and categorizes information in a millionth of a second, all of this constantly.

Think about the brain for a moment. (And don't forget the fact that you are using your brain to consider itself!) This is the brain that made the automobile, the rocket ships, the boats, and so on. Think about the brain and who made that!

Think about the heart. Think about how it pumps continuously for sixty or seventy years [taking in and discharging blood throughout the body] maintaining steady precision throughout the life of the person.

Think about the kidneys and the liver and the various functions they perform. The purifying instruments of the body that perform hundreds of chemical analyses simultaneously and also controls the level of toxicity in the content of the body. All of these are done automatically.

Think about your eyes, the human cameras, that adjust, focus, interpret, evaluate, discern color automatically, naturally receiving and adjusting to light and distance.

Think about it-Who created them? Who has mastered their design and function? Who plans and regulates their function? Human beings do this? No, of course not. What about this universe?

Think about this. This earth is one planet in our solar system, and our solar system is one [of possible many] solar systems. Our galaxy, The Milky Way, is one of the galaxies. There are ONE HUNDRED MILLION GALAXIES in the universe. They are all in order and they are all precise. They are not colliding with each other. They are not conflicting with on another. They are swimming along in an orbit that has been set for them. Did human beings set that into motion and are human beings maintaining that precision? No, of course not.

Think about the oceans, the fish, the insects, the birds, the plants, bacteria, and chemical elements that have not yet been discovered and cannot be detected even with the most sophisticated instruments. Yet each of them has a law that they follow. Did all of this synchronization, balance, harmony, variation, design, maintenance, operation and infinite numeration happen all by chance? Do these things function perfectly and perpetually also by chance? No, of course not. That would be totally illogical and foolish. In the least, it indicates that however it came to exist-it exists beyond the realm of human capability. We will all agree to that. The Being, The Almighty Power, God, The Creator who has the knowledge to design and proportion created all of this and is responsible for maintaining it. HE is the only one that deserves praise and gratitude.

If I were to give each one of you one hundred dollars for no reason, just for being here, you would at least say thank you. What about your eyes, your kidneys, your brain, your children, and your life: Who gave you all of that? Is He not worthy of praise and thanks? Is He not worthy of your worship and recognition?

My brothers and sisters, that in a nutshell, is the goal and purpose of this life. Allah said to us in the Holy Quran:

وَمَا خَلَقْتُ الْجِنَّ وَالإِنسَ إِلاَّ لِيَعْبُدُونِ

Allah Only created Mankind and Jinns to worship Him Alone ( Quran 51:56 )

Our purpose in this life is to recognize The Creator, to be grateful to Him, to worship Him, to surrender ourselves to Him and to obey the laws that He has determined for us. It means worship is our purpose in life. Whatever we do in the course of that worship, [i.e., the eating, the sleeping, the dressing, the working, the enjoying,] between birth and death is consequential and subject to His orders. But the main reason for our creation is worship. I don't think anyone who is analytical or scientific will have much of an argument with that purpose. They may have some other reason with themselves-but that is something they have to deal with between themselves and Almighty God.

Just be Yourself

Technology is growing rapidly now..

within in a few seconds we can interact with people in different parts all over the world, without having to go far or spend a lot of money even just to meet  face to face.

In this virtual environment, you can be anything, anyone, you want to be. Or one person with multiple accounts.

People can be look good and pious in front of their monitors and keyboards.but We don't know how they are in a real.

We must keep having a good thought, but do not be easily fooled by the photo, status, tweet or personal data contained in the person's profile. 

Again, do not easily believe. In this virtual environment, you can be anything, anyone, you want to be. Or one person with multiple accounts.

Another lesson We can take is .. how we feel comfortable to be ourself is very important.

When We feel comfortable and confident to be ourself, then We do not need to be tired imaging or bother to pretend to be someone else.

Just be Yourself

In the virtual world and the real, I am me. I never dream to be someone else .. or living someone else's life.

Lie or pretend to be someone else was exhausting.

Pretend it's like wearing a mask. Stifling. . Not at all comfortable.

Instead, honest be yourself and be what it was reassuring. 

We do not need to remember what we say, when, to whom .. not to forget and slip into utter.

If you're content with what you have, happy enough with your life, you will not wish to be someone else. As simple as that.

This is me. This my life. I love just the way I am. I love how I live my life, completely .. with all its ups and downs. I am me, no matter what. Alhamdulillaah.

Dunya is Delusion..Dunya is Deception

True Facts of DUNYA ...........

Whether you have a Toyota or a BMW, the road remains the same.

Whether you travel economy class or business, your destination doesn't change.

Whether you have a Casio or a Rolex, the time is the same.

There is nothing wrong in dreaming a luxurious life.

What needs to be taken care of is to not let the NEED become GREED.

Because needs can always be met..

but greed can never be fulfilled.

The life that you are living now, is also a dream of millions!!

May Allah Grant us all the ability to avoid chasing the materialistic dunya.

*Remember ........... You & Me , Rich or Poor, our grave will be same size.

The Thoughest Time in this Life

Toughest times do exist to make us appreciate what we have more and more. Sometimes we never really know what we have, until it’s gone.

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Ever heard of it?  It is a proverbial phrase encourage optimism and a can-do attitude in the face of adversity.

When life is so bitter , there is always a chance to turn things around. By making it simple, look at the bright side and suspect both to acts of Allah. When you are at the lowest point in your life, when you almost give up and think that nothing you can do, when you feel so broken and hopeless .. Remember, for everything has destined to us, there must be a REASON.

Allah put us this way, tests us, make this uneasy for us, is definitely for a purpose. Maybe for a higher purpose. The choice is ours, then. Yet complain or not complain, will not change the situation or restore what has been lost. Then why wasting time whining, complaining, regretting? It's totally useless ..

No one has a perfect life, nor a heart free of worries, or a mind free from burdens. But there is the person WHO Prays to Allah and smiles. Nothing lasts forever, life is temporary. Even the joy and the misery shall Meet Reviews their ends, one day ..

"Toughest times teach you how to survive in a way you never imagine before. You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. "

Sometimes Allah tests us, so that we are aware of the extent to which we are able to survive. Make us more resilient and able to pass through various obstacles. Something we never imagined we would be able to pass.

When grief and hardship as no-brimmed, then stop for a moment. Cry, if it is able to make us feel better. But do not stay long, just enough. Erase the tears, then got up and stood, face the future with enthusiasm and anticipation. There is always hope left behind every event.

We all have to Endure hardship and pain at different points in our life. Each event Allows us to see more of ourselves, what we are truly made of, and what we are Able to Overcome. Each experience helps us to grow, learn and reach beyond what we thought we were capable of. Life is not going to be perfect, there will be moments that knock us off our feet and require us to dig deep within our soul to carry on.

This will be over, nothing lasts forever. Days will be brighter, and things will get better.

"There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people WHO create it. You surround yourself with people WHO make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people WHO treat you right, pray for the ones WHO do not. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living. "~ Unknown

Too much Jokes,will harden the Heart

I realized that persons who always making jokes and too much laughing,their heart had became DIED.

Some people joke too much and it becomes a habit for them. This is the opposite of the serious nature which is the characteristic of the believers. Joking is a break, a rest from ongoing seriousness and striving; it is a little relaxation for the soul.

>>"Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Azeez (may Allah have mercy on him) said:“Fear joking, for it is folly and generates grudges.”

>>Imam al-Nawawi (may Allah have mercy on him) said:“The kind of joking which is forbidden is that which is excessive and persistent, for it leads to too much laughter and hardening of the heart, it distracts from remembrance of Allah, and it often leads to hurt feelings, generates hatred and causes people to lose respect and dignity. But whoever is safe from such dangers, then that which the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to do is permissible for him.”

>>Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqas said:“Set a limit to your jokes, for going to extremes makes you lose respect and incites the foolish against you".

>>The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:“Do not laugh too much, for laughing too much deadens the heart.” (Saheeh al-Jami’, 7312)

>>"Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) said:“Whoever laughs too much or jokes too much loses respect, and whoever persists in doing something will be known for it.”

>>A man said to Sufyaan ibn ‘Uyaynah (may Allah be pleased with him),“Joking is not right, it is to be denounced.” He replied,“Rather it is Sunnah, but only for those who know how to do it and do it at the appropriate time.”

>>The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:“If you knew what I know, you would laugh little and weep much.” In Fath al-Baari it says: “What is meant by knowledge here has to do with the might of Allah and His vengeance upon those who disobey Him, and the terrors that occur at death, in the grave and on the Day of Resurrection.”

So beware of joking, for it“causes a person to lose face after he was thought of as respectable, and it brings him humiliation after esteem.”

The Misuse Of The Words Maa Shaa Allah and SubhanAllah

The Misuse Of The Words Maa Shaa Allah and SubhanAllah

In the last Islam Study Class for kids, we learnt about what Rasulullah usually said in daily life. And we found that we both (I and mr.A) had misconception using SubhanAllah and Maa Shaa Allah. Before we heard about the truth about these words purpose in life condition, we normally used Maa Shaa Allah when there is a calamity or unexpected turn of event or when we are upset and so on and so forth, and SubhanAllah to be used when there is joy or beauty, like when you see a beautiful baby/person or a stunning sunset or a melodious voice.

The truth is,

Maa Shaa Allah   (ما شاء الله)  literally means Whatever Allah (God) wills. It is often used in occasions where there is surprise in someones’ good deeds or achievements; admiration at various abundant goodness. This is expressions of amazement at the beautiful things, and it does wonderful things beloved and desired by Allah (QS. 18 : 39).

then Subhanallah (سبحان الله) literally means Glory be to Allah (God). This exclamation used to express concern over the unfavorable thing in which inappropriate [(QS. 34 : 40-41)(QS. 12 : 108)] and embedded in the meaning of “down” [(QS. 68 : 29)(QS. 24 : 16)], which according to the habits of people in Arabic.

Al-Bukhari narrated in his Saheeh that Jabir ibn ‘Abd-Allah (may Allah be pleased with him) said :

When we went up we would say takbeer (Allahu Akbar) and when we went down we would say tasbeeh (Subhan Allah).

In shaa Allah, from now, we start using these words in proper way, avoiding misconception and give precise and meaningful way to the words. 

Waalahu'alam bishawab.

Will your soul return to you tomorrow?

Will your soul return to you tomorrow?

Just think about this for a second. You’re going to sleep tonight and your soul will leave your body.

Technically you’ll be dead for a while. You can’t be sure that your soul will return to you again. Thousands and thousands of people will not wake up from their sleep tonight. None of us can be sure that we will see another day. Will Allah return our souls to us for another tomorrow? What if He didn’t? Are we even ready for that?

It’s time to stop pretending it can’t happen. It can and one day we will sleep for the last time. If we’ve been thinking about changing to be better, even the smallest of improvements, then make that change today! If we’re looking for a sign that the time is right, This is that sign! If we’re looking for the strength to improve, Allah will give it us if we just try. If we make that genuine intention to be better and we don’t wake up tomorrow, in shaa Allah we will still be rewarded for our intentions! They still will be written in our book of good deeds.

May Allah give us all the strength to make positive changes in our life.

Allahumma Aameen...